I am always asking myself, where should I head to after I finished my Internship and get my Degree?
Continue to work....but where?
Looking for a job....but what?
Aim for a high salary job...but how?
Investments as side incomes....but how?
Archieve my goals within the specific year...but how?
It is easy when we say what we want to do, but it is hard when we don't know how to do it.
Things can be specific from several directions and ways, but the bridge to reach that destination had only one way.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Acceptable or Unacceptable?
Today, I got scolded by the director of the hotel out of a sudden......
Following is the story:
Well, I am making breakfast tables today like I do everyday.....
After I am finished with it, then I am bringing the prepared table up to the office of the floor due to space limitation of the place in my department....
Then, I am going to bring 2 table up to the floor when the elavator comes, and also the director comes towards my direction, that moment I was going to take a table after another, but the table I am holding was the unprepared table, so I was trying to push that table to the side first and bring the prepared table into the evalator......
Out of a sudden, the Director shouted! He said:" what are you doing? How can you bring two tables into the elavator at the same time?!"
Then...
He continue to shout at my Chef (Manager) in German and said:" You are the chef and you should control your staff to do things properly!" and he went in another Elavator while I continued my work....
After I came down from the floor........
I meet him again at the Elavator near my department, and he shouted at me again and he said : "There is one thing you should know in this world!!! That is you must always make sure everything are perfect and perfectly done in your life's or else you will never survive in your life's!!! " then he turned away and walked to my Chef and said: " Please make sure your staff is doing his job properly!!!"
In fact, I don't even have a chance to say anything because he is already shouting.
Indeed, he didn't even ask what I am doing and he is already judging me in his point of view.
In my point of view, I will never believe in everything must be perfect in life's as to survive, because people's do make mistakes and then only they will realize they are wrong and figure out way's to solve the problems and try not to repeat the same mistakes again.
To my fellow audience, family and friends.....
1. What mistakes had I done wrong in this scene?
2. Do you think I had done something wrong? Am I wrong? Yes or No?
3. On the other hand, do you think everything will be "PERFECT" in human life's?
4. Also, people will not survive even if they are not perfect?
Please give me feedback base on this case and also your point of view.
Thank you.
Following is the story:
Well, I am making breakfast tables today like I do everyday.....
After I am finished with it, then I am bringing the prepared table up to the office of the floor due to space limitation of the place in my department....
Then, I am going to bring 2 table up to the floor when the elavator comes, and also the director comes towards my direction, that moment I was going to take a table after another, but the table I am holding was the unprepared table, so I was trying to push that table to the side first and bring the prepared table into the evalator......
Out of a sudden, the Director shouted! He said:" what are you doing? How can you bring two tables into the elavator at the same time?!"
Then...
He continue to shout at my Chef (Manager) in German and said:" You are the chef and you should control your staff to do things properly!" and he went in another Elavator while I continued my work....
After I came down from the floor........
I meet him again at the Elavator near my department, and he shouted at me again and he said : "There is one thing you should know in this world!!! That is you must always make sure everything are perfect and perfectly done in your life's or else you will never survive in your life's!!! " then he turned away and walked to my Chef and said: " Please make sure your staff is doing his job properly!!!"
In fact, I don't even have a chance to say anything because he is already shouting.
Indeed, he didn't even ask what I am doing and he is already judging me in his point of view.
In my point of view, I will never believe in everything must be perfect in life's as to survive, because people's do make mistakes and then only they will realize they are wrong and figure out way's to solve the problems and try not to repeat the same mistakes again.
To my fellow audience, family and friends.....
1. What mistakes had I done wrong in this scene?
2. Do you think I had done something wrong? Am I wrong? Yes or No?
3. On the other hand, do you think everything will be "PERFECT" in human life's?
4. Also, people will not survive even if they are not perfect?
"You must always make sure everything are perfect and perfectly done in your life's or else you will never survive in your life's!!! "5. Do you think this statement is acceptable?
Please give me feedback base on this case and also your point of view.
Thank you.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Justice
In hotel line, no matter it is your managers or the guests faults, they are always right and you will be blammed.
But, even if they blame you, try not to make yrself apologize to them because you know it is their fault and it is not your fault. Instead, don't apologize but just commencing that you will make it better next time or changes.
As for my experience, I always tell this to my closest friends or trusted colleague:
"It doesn't mean that I am not pissed off if I don't say anything!"
This actually means that although I don't say a word or being rude to a person when they insulted me, assulted me physically or mentally, but it also doesn't means that I am not angry or pissed off with them.
Among people's and justices, nothings is fair out there. Indeed, we must always know how to protect ourself but also mind about other people feelings as to avoid troubles and problems.
we must always achieve tolerancy and patients towards our coworkers, managers, friends or anyone out there, but don't allow them to overcross your limit in almost everything, or else they will always take opportunity on you.
But, even if they blame you, try not to make yrself apologize to them because you know it is their fault and it is not your fault. Instead, don't apologize but just commencing that you will make it better next time or changes.
As for my experience, I always tell this to my closest friends or trusted colleague:
"It doesn't mean that I am not pissed off if I don't say anything!"
This actually means that although I don't say a word or being rude to a person when they insulted me, assulted me physically or mentally, but it also doesn't means that I am not angry or pissed off with them.
Among people's and justices, nothings is fair out there. Indeed, we must always know how to protect ourself but also mind about other people feelings as to avoid troubles and problems.
we must always achieve tolerancy and patients towards our coworkers, managers, friends or anyone out there, but don't allow them to overcross your limit in almost everything, or else they will always take opportunity on you.
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